Spiritual Power and Kundalini awakening

I have several thoughts about Brahmacharya.Brahmacharya means to follow Bramha, or to become one with the creator of the universe. Essentially, that means to become one with the Shakti, or in our case, the Kundalini.
This where the common perception comes from that you need to control the sexual urges. The truth is that you become the sexual urges, or the Shakti. That is the only way to control the immense power of the Kundalini, once it is awakened.
Tantra is the method by which you unite Shakti with the purified mind (Shiva). When that union of Shiva and Shakti acts, Bramha becomes manifest.
White Tantra starts by controlling the mind and preparing the mind for the tremendous energy of the Shakti, once it is released Black Tantra says learn to control the Shakti by releasing it, even before the mind is purified. With the display of energy, the ways to control the energy will become visible.
In practice, neither of the straight white or black Tantras is sustainable. In order to become realized, a mixture of the two occurs, creating a Grey Tantra. In order to be a self realized person, everything is tossed into the fire of spiritual practice.
Mental constructs are the biggest obstacle to self realization.PRANA Water was created to present a new mental construct of what self realization could feel like, emotionally.
This brings up the subject of drugs, gems, etc as an aid to realization. All of them have their place,if they are properly understood as an aid to a mental stance. Once that mental stance is acquired, these aids are then seen as a crutch. They are no longer needed. You can keep them around and put them over the fireplace, if you are sentimental.